crueltobekind L.L. Bean guy in a button down world.

About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I'm the average looking guy in the L.L. Bean clothing who surprises you after you get to know me. I'm a bit of a nerd (I am a scientist after all), but I also have black belts in a couple martial arts. Looks can be deceiving as most people know. I alternate between spending too much time indoors reading, watching movies and staying up late exploring the bedroom and spending way too much time outdoors hiking, star gazing and camping.

I am a great friend to a very select few. I hope I'm a good father to my daughters. I shuffle too much paper at work and do less science than I'd like. I have the place people can come and crash at when their life needs a day or two of peace and quiet. I am fortunate to have wonderful female friends to go along with my male buddies. I am currently looking for some land to build a new house on. I've already done the big house on way too much land so am simplifying and looking to build a more sustainable house on smaller piece of property.

I'm really good at long term friendship. But only with a very, very, very select group of people. I think way too many people call others friend when that person is only an acquaintance. I like the people I am acquainted with, but I love my friends. Yet I never take a long time acquiring a friendship with someone. I just seem to know when I have met a friend and those people become life long partners (even if they are partners in crime...shh!).

I'm the guy that fits in everywhere. I am fine in a meeting with lawyers and high paid consultants. Yet I often find myself eating lunch with the blue collar workers. I am as comfortable with my female friends as I am hanging out in man caves with my male buddies. I am not the life of the party, but I am often the person that you end up talking to long after everyone else has left for the evening.

Some things I need: (1) Solitude now and again. (2) Lots of sex. (3) A good sword - no really, I take sword classes. (4) Lots of rope. (5) Books. (6) Movies.

I'm looking for:

You might be interested in me if you are looking for someone to enjoy and who might enjoy spending time with you. You are looking for someone to laugh with and have long discussions with late into the evening. You are that girl with a twinkle in her eye and a naughty smile even when you are being sweet and innocent.